<p>I have recieved several PM's from posters who want to get out of the debate, but support my position, and I truly appreciate it. </p>
<p>I am not trying to make myself look "smarter" than anyone else, or have my GPA praised by strangers. I already graduated; what is the point? And even when I was still in school, applying to colleges, I didn't post my stats because I know that since no one here knows me in person, their opinion of my 3.6 as a good or bad GPA has no bearing on my life or self-perception. </p>
<p>It seems no matter how I argue, students and parents who are in support of their grade inflating public schools will never see a private schooler's point of view. It's too bad everyone can't experience a day or two in the others shoes, because it might change some opinions. I spent a day freshman year testing out the public school I would go to because I was so overwhelmed with work, and sorry, it was horrible. There was absolutely no discipline or respect for authority, the teacher didn't care if people were participating or sleeping, kids would shout across the classroom, there were gang members and students loitering everywhere during class periods, food and garbage flying everywhere during lunch, and very few students seemed to be engaged in the material. Don't give me the, "this is the real world!" thing, because I don't believe it is. Behavior these students were exhibiting was so unacceptable that is is obvious they would end up as losers in life with no job or knowledge of how to obey rules. I compare this to my own experience in high school: students raising their hands when they wish to speak, everyone in the room participating in discussion, an absolutely SILENT hallway during class periods (no loitering), and students actually remembering that the teacher is an authority figure and to not mouth off whenever he or she disagrees, and respect for the actual building by NOT throwing food, and picking up one's own garbage. Any infraction at the public school resulted in nothing, or if lucky, a stern word from the teacher, where at my school the slightest breaking of the rules resulted in immediate detention. Most public magnets, IB's, and privates seem to know how to keep order, as does the typical suburban public. This city public was in absolute MAYHEM. I figured I'd rather put up with severe grading if it meant not having to deal with the disgusting conditions and unbelievable behavior of the students. </p>
<p>I know I would have had a 4.0 at the public school in my neighborhood. Turning in homework was considering amazing. So that, in conjunction with my ACT and SAT's, might have gotten me into my ED school...where I was rejected from. </p>
<p>Could you public school people please stop telling us private schoolers we are snobby, whiney, etc? We're not. Maybe you just don't want to admit that perhaps your GPA is fake...almost as fake as the people who supposedly attend private schools.</p>