<p>I live in the NE too. I believe I understand your question, but I think it really depends on the specific school. Some smaller private schools have a higher % of OOS students than the state directionals. </p>
<p>I asked this question of a few students at some of the schools we visited. I wanted DS to have the residential college experience, and would be disappointed if the majority of students left on the weekends.</p>
<p>If you have a specific school you are concerned about, maybe I could help.</p>