I’m a first year going to a UC and it’s my second quarter here. Ever since winter break ended, I’ve been feeling extremely homesick and lonely. Last quarter, I didn’t feel this way whatsoever. I’m trying to occupy myself with new hobbies, and I even went out with sisters in my sorority today. Is this feeling normal? I’m trying to tell myself that it’ll get better once midterm season comes through, but I don’t know. At one point, I thought about transferring to a community college near home, but I’m trying to stick it out until this quarter is over. Any advice?
You may have a little seasonal depression - is it cloudy there? Also I think there is a tendency after the holidays to ge a bit blue. Be kind to yourself and if you still feel this way in a week or two (or if it gets worse) maybe go to the counseling center.
Try reading this thread:http://talk.qa.collegeconfidential.com/college-life/2016222-to-those-who-feel-lonely-homesick-friendless-think-they-chose-the-wrong-school-etc.html#latest
I agree with the possibility of seasonal depression as it is the winter as well as coming back from the holiday. I would check out the thread above^^ and also maybe see if you can find a club that interests you to keep you distracted. Additionally I would see if you can find a support group. My school has a club that meets weekly and just discusses mental health and how we are feeling. Maybe your school offers something similar?
Are you exercising? Exercise can be a big mood booster
i think it is hard to come home and connect with family and friends over break and then return to school and have to readjust and get acclimated to the life you started to make. i agree with finding a club, getting some exercise and staying busy —the height of the winter months are really challenging, find ways to make your days brighter