<p>I'm a graduate of a top liberal-arts college, and my son is applying to large state universities (journalism/political science) this fall. As other posters are saying here, it's hard to pin down what's "best" because it depends so much on the student. I have always been ambivalent about whether my education was better or worth it. My lifelong friendships are the most positive lasting benefit. And yes, I did get a good education in small classes, but it was not by any means a nurturing environment just because it was small. It was pretty tough, and for me, not tough in a good way. So my feeling is: "top-rated" is good only if it suits the student (and the family's finances).</p>
<p>I had not spent much time on a large state-U campus until we started college visits (my H is a proud state U grad). Now I am thrilled my S is headed in that direction. He is a city kid who's tired of small schools. I am so impressed by the academic and extracurricular resources available on these campuses. I know honors programs vary in quality, but I do think they're worth exploring. My S will find his own challenges. And as for his parents, we will be spending within our budget and have funds left over to support life experiences that are all part of his education (not to mention our own retirement).</p>