hooked up with girl and now its awkward

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<p>so I broke a 3.5 month drought and hooked up with this girl after a party I invited her to meeting her only a few hours prior. I texted her the next day (which she said to do) and she replied that she couldn't hang out because she was busy and had a lot of work due Monday. Alright, so I don't text her again until tomorrow, when I ask her how her day is going, no response. I then walk by her in the cafeteria, and she tries to look away until I say hey to her, and to her credit she said hey back. I saw her again today on the lunch line, she didn't acknowledge me so I didn't say anything to her. </p>

<p>so what do I do? I want a chance at love, and I did well with her at the start. How can I get her to really like me?</p>

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<p>how hot???</p>

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<p>Move on. Seriously.</p>

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<p>Agreed. Move on.</p>

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<p>can I at least have an idea of why she doesn’t like me anymore? Or what is really going on? I know girls like to play games</p>

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<p>This thread only seems appropriate if you’re a girl.</p>

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<p>SNAP OUT OF IT, DAMMIT! <em>smacks Mikki repeatedly</em></p>

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<p>That wasn’t necessarily an appropriate response. :P</p>

<p>OP: Ugh, I hate people like that! Seems like this is not a healthy relationship. She’s just being a shallow jerk.</p>

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<p>I guess if you want to have an idea about why she is ignoring you, you should approach her about it. =&lt;/p>

<p>But I still think you should move on after that.</p>

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<p>Maybe she has a bf, bf at home, got a good look at you in the harsh light of day, is embarrassed she hooked up with you, whatever, is causing her to avoid you. Why don’t you text her and ask her to coffee. Something innocent so she won’t think all you want to do is hookup. Back up a few paces and start a friendship.</p>

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<p>From my experiences, there is simply no alternative method to the situation. It works only if one is fortunate enough.</p>

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<p>Move on .</p>

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<p>Yeah get out of this junk.</p>

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<p>In addition to my post #8, why would you want to carry that issue over trying to get in a relationship with a girl who’s immature when you can find nicer ones.</p>

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<p>Are you lesbian? Mikki Mars sounds like a girl’s SN</p>

<p>if not move along, nothing to see here</p>

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<p>^ haha. I couldn’t tell if the OP was a girl or a boy either. </p>

<p>Either way OP, move on. I kid you not. I’m super serious.</p>

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<p>if you want love, you don’t hook up on the first meet.
you said you had a dry spell, you fulfilled the purpose, to hook up. get over it.</p>

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<p>yeah, generally if you hook up with a girl after just meeting her she isn’t looking for anything serious. time to move on.</p>

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<p>What they said.</p>

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<p>On to the next one</p>