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meeting people on line is for losers.
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<p>I'm hardly a loser, but thanks for the concern.</p>
<p>Oh, in that case, Mike: your gf likes me better than she likes you.</p>
<p>Pseudonym, it's good that we clarified this for people who might've read the comment without context.</p>
<p>You guys are all really weird.</p>
<p>Chill out. Meeting someone online is for losers. Its for people that cant meet poeple regularly. its actually sad that life has come to this.</p>
<p>'tisthetruth: Yeah, I didn't notice until you pointed it out that he'd edited. I'm glad you gave me the chance to clarify my comment, which looked pretty weird once he changed his!</p>
<p>Mike, I don't give a rat's rectum if you think meeting people online is for losers. I got annoyed when you went all immature-12-year-old in your choice of pejorative adjective.</p>
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Chill out. Meeting someone online is for losers. Its for people that cant meet poeple regularly. its actually sad that life has come to this.
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<p>Why should we chill it? You should. Stop resorting to name calling simply because you dont do something we do. I've met plenty of people 'regularly' as well. Facebook just happens to be a good and easy starting point to meeting people. I'm not limiting myself to online conversations or online relationships. I think you think I and others are doing something that we're not.</p>
<p>Im not all uptight. Im chill.</p>
<p>I just think that meeting people online is 1. Sketchy 2. kind of weird.</p>
<p>thats all</p>
<p>Give justification. Please. Both girls and everyone I've met/talked think otherwise.</p>
<p>im not going to waste my time talking about this on a public forum....you can message me with you AIM if you want to continue</p>
<p>I dont see a point to continue. Your argument was essentially nothing. As I said, the girl doesnt find it creepy/sketchy/shady. We text each other too--is that okay with you? Seriously though, I'm going to meet her in under two months.</p>
<p>LMAO, This thread has officially escalated to the point of being hilarious.</p>
<p>I think it's fine to meet people online. People are still people and you're still getting to know one another, even if it's not in person. My first boyfriend and I met online (not on Facebook) and we dated for three years after we met in person! </p>
<p>And just because I DO meet people online doesn't mean I'm incapable of ALSO meeting people in real life! XD </p>
<p>LosLobos, you're right. Mike's argument is completely non-existant. We live in a technological age and the internet is an essential tool for communication now. There's nothing anyone can do to change that.</p>
<p>Quite frankly, Mike89 is the shunned philosopher king of this thread. The rest of you frighten me.</p>
<p>yeah, my sister's old friend tried to spit game at me via a facebook message...I was like nah find a dude your own age and in your area. </p>
<p>Facebook is a chump's excuse for not having any game.</p>
<p>Peace.</p>
<p>i dunno, seems kinda unnatural? like...do you guys just find some hot person and message them? and how would you message them...like "hi, youre pretty and i want to get to know you.." isnt that kinda creepy? i mean its cool that it has worked out for some ppl like ohthunderbelle though.</p>
<p>that's my problem with it too, atlantiz. Whenever random people I don't know message me, I'm always like who the hell are you and why are you msg-ing me? If it's some dude that's like, "hey hottie" (yes it has happened before) I'm just like IGNORE. I think it's just kinda weird. I prefer to meet people in person. It's okay to keep in touch with people on facebook, but meeting them on there is just a little weird unless you're a freshman just looking for more freshman to get to know before you get to school, then it's not quite as weird.</p>
<p>It just doesn't happen. Although friendships arise more frequently than you think because of good old Stalkerbook.</p>
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Further, nothing makes me say, "oh god", more than a flirty wall post like, "I saw u 2day! we need 2 chill!" </p>
<p>Fellas, just say it in person. Please.
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<p>The beef I have with this is, sometimes a guy who met a girl through whatever means (let's say through a friend), who doesn't see her on a regular basis, who wants to get to know her better on a friend level, would want to leave such a message. And nothing makes me say "oh god" more than a girl who completely ignores such comments based on faulty assumptions/other strange and unknown reasons. And yes, I've seen it happen.</p>
<p>I hooked up with facebook. There's absolutely nothing wrong with it. We started out just messaging each other. I liked her, she liked me. Next thing we know, we're talking everyday and hanging out. It's the best thing that ever happened to me.</p>
<p>How is that bad or pathetic?</p>
<p>nah michiganman, i dont think it's bad (a little unorthodox maybe?). im just not sure how it would work.</p>
<p>did you just randomly message her and point out some shared interests listed on your profiles or something? im also assuming you gotta be a decent to good looking fella or she might be weirded out about some guy randomly messaging her and being friendly. </p>
<p>but hey it worked for you, so more power to ya.</p>
<p>In real life, guys approach girls (and sometimes vice versa) solely based on looks, so Facebook's no more shallow than traditional reality. But I do understand how some people look down on it because it takes much less courage to introduce yourself online than in real life.</p>