<p>LOL..this is the most honest thread title ever...I love it.</p>
<p>And to answer the OP's question...easier than you think but it is all relative.</p>
<p>I would argue that it is easier to achieve a "one night stand" or short relationships in college- especially within the Greek System.</p>
<p>I just wanted to know if its easier to meet women in college, why does it matter to anyone as to what I do in college in my spare time? is it easy in schools like Purdue or Pennstate? or UTAustin?</p>
<p>uhhh... if your good lookin then id imagine itd be easy to meet women in college</p>
<p>When you said "hooking up" I thought you meant having sex with girl after girl after girl (i.e. one night stands). But if you do simply mean just "meeting women" and dating them, then I sorry I was so uptight and flamed at you. There's nothing wrong with having * healthy * realtionships with women and socializing with them in college. </p>
<p>Since Penn State and UTAustin have extensive Greek systems ands reputations for being "party schools", I'd image it would be easier meeting women than at small LACs.</p>
<p>And yes, like proton said, good looks help!</p>
<p>EG, can't one hook up with people AND study hard and learn lots? It's not as if it takes ALL of your time. I don't see anything particularly wrong with his question. It's not as if he said, "How easy is it to hook up with girls all day long so that I don't have to study?"</p>
<p>wow eg u are so closed minded. when u go to college there are many thigns that u expereince. and hooking up is one of them. so as an incoming freshman u think about the new experiences u will have. so its really close minded to think the only thing u should do and the only expereince u will ahve in college is studying. even if u dont like drugs or hooking up u will have to face them because of the environment u chose to be in. so before u go to colelge it is a good idea to think about these things. also to say u will fail if u think of antying else then studying is stupid. going to college is just not about studying, there will be many things coming at you and its okay to think about them. </p>
<p>also if u hook up with people it doesnt mean the only thing u do is drink alcohol all day and not go to class.</p>
<p>also hooking up means to have sex or any other contact with girls(like making out).</p>
<p>NO! I didn't say that all you're supposed to do in college in studying. There should be a balance between studying and social life etc. One should have a broad array of experiences academic, social, cultural, in etc. in college. Also, you don't have to be "hooking up" in order to have a great social life. If you believe that, then you have a very narrow definition of of social life. And believe it or not, there are many schools out there where * Animal House * antics are not common!</p>
<p>And to TheHunk...if you are what your name suggests, than why would you need to worry about this? Don't sweat it...
Good luck. :)</p>
<p>sounds like someone needs to get laid</p>
<p>Hey, if hooking up is your idea of a good time, go for it, I'm not here to judge. Just use the proper precautions.</p>
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<p>What would ever make you say that?? :D :D :D</p>
<p>if you like AIDS or getting AIDS, hooking up is a good idea</p>
<p>..thats freakin hilarious</p>
<p>Elbereth Gilthoniel, I think your response is totally out of proportion. I think it's a normal question.. and even if he is going to have one-night-stand after one-night-stand, do you really think that those girls are so naive?I bet there are a lot of girls in college who are perfectly fine with having a one-night-stand. It's like you're trying real hard to be a feminist but just don't get it.</p>
<p>oh for crying out loud. This is where CCs identity as a true hangout for nerds is really revealed. And i never believed there were so many puritanical reactionaries in college these days. The question of hooking up is a legitimate concern, I believe, because like it or not, you are all, each one of you, one day, going to Want to have sex. To dismiss sexuality as something that "only gets in the way of studying" is to disregard your human nature as a sexual being.
As much as I respect the decision of those who are "saving themselves" for marriage, they must in return respect the rational, human decision made by TheHulk and others to do otherwise...
And here's some science for you courtesy of my psychology textbook, to refute the claim that hooking up diverts too much time from studying: average time of intercourse for a male to ejaculate = 1.6 minutes. </p>
<p>/ oh no, I said "ejaculate"</p>
<p>sexuality doesnt divert time away from being an intellectual.. the heavy drinking, drug use, maniac concern for ones personal appearnace... all the stereotypes we use to identify a sexually active person.. are what do. This is wrong, because in fact, many people who do not put on like their main drive is for sex, are actually driven primarily by sexual motives.</p>
<p>thecity, you are right on!!!</p>
<p>there is nothing wrong with "hooking up" do as you please</p>
<p>whatever floats your boat is fine by me!!!(as long as both parties are lucid and consenting to whatever is about to transpire)</p>
<p>Elizabeth......you can't be serious.</p>
<p>the objective answer is yes its easier to hook up in college unless you go to a school that has beat girls. its all about confidence and game in college, unless the school you attend has a lot of stuck up people. it varies by location.</p>
<p>Man, r all american girls like EG. Maybe i should reconsider going to USA uni. Jeese</p>
<p>molyneux, like anywhere else in the world, of course not. no, they're not all like EG, cuz they're not all the same. I think there are so many different kinds of people at every college.
My view on this would be that, hey, its college, have fun, don't be stupid, be respectful, don't judge everyone so harshly on what they decide to do. Make your own decisions. Some people want to party really hard core and get drunk and have sex. Others don't at all. so just stick with those who want to do the same thing as you.</p>
<p>To TheHunk, like partying, i think that meeting people is much easier in college than it was in high school. you shouldn't have a problem if you're not a super shy quiet person.</p>
<p>Some colleges are worse for women...Carthage college(which I'm leaving for various reasons)....one could not go out and hit on many women becuase:</p>
<p>Not many places asidse from library and coffee shop which most girls go to in groups anyway....
Hit on too many women, and the few good looking ones will talk and blacklist you.</p>
<p>Not to mention ugly women(and low female population given the small number of overall students....not to mention most guys are built athletes, the average guy here has a well-defined six pack for christ sake)....it's one thing if your into the party scene....however getting into that is like getting into the VIP room of a up-scale club....people try to keep their parties to their own groups and don't encourage many outsiders to join the fun.....I've had friends and aqaiuntances lie to my face about parties to keep them small MANY times.</p>
<p>Classes are small which mean you have a few ok to descent looking girls along with some A&F model quality looking males.....This place is like bizarro world...I've had to lower my standards....I can't wait to leave</p>
<p>I came from a conservative background but I kept an open mind that people are not like me. My first year out of the house I went to a club for the first time in NYC and actually started to hang out with people. I don't party or hook up but that's great for those who do, in fact I wish I was like that.</p>