@mom2collegekids, let’s break it down:
MIT scholarship above tuition plus NM scholarship- $7800 This was used to cover room and included in income. So,
$21,000-$7,800= $13,200 left
He paid MIT about $3000 for board. So,
$13,200-$3,000= $9,200 left
Last summer’s room, board, travel (including subway and airfare for coming home in the summer for a surprise visit for two days) was around $4000-5000. So,
$9,200-$4000/5000= $4200-5200
Let’s throw in some costs for books, clothing, supplies (his computer burned up, new phone, recording equipment for his recording studio) would be around $2000-3000
$4200/5200 - $2000/3000 = $3200-$1200
And then there are just plain incidentals-gifts for Christmas, other travel costs (flight home for Christmas), etc. $1000
What’s left is probably around $1000, give or take some hundreds.
So there we are left without budgeting the $4000 for taxes.
Yes, our income last year with disability and 401K was 74K, but we had been using a small 529 account to pay for his school. That was used up after the first two years, so we expected him to cover the costs last year. But, as was stated above, he got caught short on taxes, so we used our money to cover him. This year’s income for us will be 66K-no money in 401K this year.
When you live far away from home and in an expensive city, it’s amazing how fast an income can disappear; and, considering a good chunk of it was used to cover tuition, room, board, and travel, it’s easy to see how it can quickly go.
He’s learning to budget better.
And I’m not sure what you meant by “just for him.” We have two other children at home. We pay all educational costs out of pocket since we homeschool and we spend around $5000 a year on their education combined.