<p>I thought that I would share some lessons learned because I wish that I had known these things while helping my child plan her high school to college ‘route’. Please note that this information is soley based on personal experience ( family, friends, classmates…small sample size!). </p>
<li><p>In a college advising meeting, we were told that it is better to apply for a to the University of California system with a specific major, rather than apply undeclared. It seems that undeclared may have been a better way to apply.</p></li>
<li><p>We were also advised to take as many honors and AP classes as we could.
As it turns out, people who took only a few of these, had a relatively easy courseload, and thereby kept a high GPA, seemed to fare better than those who took all the honors and AP classes and had a bit lower GPA. The UC application only gives credit ( extra weight) for 8 semesters ( 4 classes) of honors/AP. Students definitely got into CAL, UCLA, and UCSD with high GPAs and an easier courseload. You do not need to take ALL the honors and AP classes. </p></li>
<li><p>SAT scores do not make up for the lower GPA. You are better off having a great GPA ( even taking the easy route), and having just-ok SAT scores, than having strong SATs, a killer course load and a just-good GPA.</p></li>
<li><p>Having a difficult family situation and lower income, etc, makes all the difference.</p></li>
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<p>On the bright side, having taken a really hard courseload all 4 yrs of high school, my daughter is extremely well prepared for college and is having incredible success in her first year.</p>
<p>It was just disappointing for me, as a parent, to feel that I had misadvised her ( based on the advising I received) to take all honors and AP classes. Her SAT scores were, in some cases, much higher than some of her friends, but
her GPA was just ‘good’. She worked much harder that her friends due to the intensity of her classes, but it didn’t really pay off at admission time. </p>
<p>There were lots of examples, but here are three specific ones:</p>
<li><p>Friends ( several): Accepted to CAL w/ lower SAT scores, equivalent ECs, GPAs somewhat higher helped out by much easier courseload /less honors/APs.
2 of them also had difficult family situations which they shared in essays.</p></li>
<li><p>One of her closest friends : same gpa, slightly lower SATs, same ECs. Sort of difficult family situation. Accepted to UCLA. ( applied undelcared)</p></li>
<li><p>Close Relative : Bit higher GPA ( mostly easy classes, only a few honors), MUCH lower SATs, talked about a difficult family situation. Accepted to UCSD.
( applied undeclared).</p></li>
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<p>I hope this will be of help to someone. It’s hard to see someone work so hard and be ‘rejected’ when a little different planning might’ve helped them get ‘accepted’.</p>