<p>Bookiemom, re the confidence factor, it will all be fine, I assure you. D took the Ochem I final while in a back brace due to an athletic injury. The team doctors filled her full of some sort of painkillers and some other stuff, and put her in a brace, in order to get her functional for the next competition. In D-1 athletics the product has a limited shelf life so the strategy appears to be to patch the performer up as efficiently as possible with no consideration for long term health impact, so, that meant back brace and I think even steroids. Plus she had a cold at the same time. She told me (later) that walking from her dorm room enroute to the exam location, she sneezed and fell over on the sidewalk and there was some hilarity as fellow students had to help her back up on her feet, on account of limited mobility. Somehow got through that one with a B for the course.</p>
<p>Ochem 2, the athletic department bought her a tutor, and, this tutor was simply awesome. I don't think the B would have happened without the tutor. Very, very difficult to have a courseload of chem, physics, math, plus another class or so related to her other major. But tutors come with their own challenges - one has to organize one's schedule around the tutor's availability, etc. </p>
<p>That was two years ago, and, the Ochem challenge and a few others like it appear to have served to give her incredible self confidence. So I do not think your daughter will lose confidence - I think she may have a few points of self-doubt just prior to the exam, but, I think once she gets through it, and gets some distance from it, the experience will serve as a basis for sustaining high self confidence in years to come, and especially in situations where perhaps career aspirations don't come as easily as hoped, etc. </p>
<p>Is there a better way to teach it? I don't know about that. I think that these tougher challenges are probably solid preparation for some of the challenges that may come later in the work force. I do not like to hear that students are so upset that they cry (and mine tends to become cold, distant and stoic vs. tearfull) but on the other hand, often a career event can be very, very disappointing or surprising and even blatantly unfair, and I think it's better than young men and women can have these sorts of experiences in the rather safe environment that is college, rather than have them for the first time once they're in the work force, and perhaps with a mortage or family to support and other obligations, and where changing strategy or direction isn't an option because of those obligations.</p>