<p>Are you generally friendly with them?</p>
<p>How should you be with them?</p>
<p>I only have 1 suitemate, but I absolutely despise her. She’s never there, but whenever she is, she leaves: her hair (weave and pubic), toenail clippings, and bodily fluids (i.e. her boyfriend’s urine) for me to clean up. I’ve complained hella, but no one ever really knew where she was at times. I’ll be moving into a different room next week, though.</p>
<p>@LaChicaBuena</p>
<p>Emily?</p>
<p>^ No. Hella depressing to imagine that there’s someone in a similar situation as me, though.</p>
<p>Mine (I have 2) are very friendly and relaxed but we are different personality wise and major wise so we’re not that close</p>
<p>I have 4, half guys half girls. I’m closest with one of the guys and one of the girls, quite close with the second guy, and cordial to the second girl. The second girl has issues with pretty much everyone where I live, so cordial’s the best I can do. For the other three, I would call them friends without hesitation.</p>
<p>I think it’s good to be friends or at least friendly with your suitemates.</p>
<p>Very well. Last year, my suitemates, roommate, and I lived together in the dorms and got along really well. Now we’re living together in an apartment. A fight hasn’t broken out between us yet since we’re open about communication.</p>
<p>I have a roommate and two suitemates… they seem nice, but not a whole lot in common with them. I’m a junior (transfer) who avoids classes before noon and is generally studying and/or doing problem sets. They’re all freshmen, morning people, and humanities majors, two are in a sorority, etc. They’re nice and all, but I’m not really close to any of them, and don’t see them all that often.</p>
<p>@LaChicaBuena</p>
<p>Oh, no, I was just taking a wild stab to freak someone out/joking around.</p>
<p>They’re all cordial enough to me, but I’m super distant from them. I don’t mind any of them, but I do suspect that they talk about me behind my back and that they don’t like me very much. The rest of them (there are 9 of us in total) are very close though (which seems to be the norm around here for freshmen).</p>
<p>I have a room with a guy and then two guys live across the living room area thing in each of their own rooms–a total of three rooms. We all share a bathroom. After a whole semester, I hardly ever talk to my suitemates. It’s kind of awkward, like running into them sometimes, when one is leaving or coming in, etc. But, it’s also kind of nice that we all keep to ourselves and there is not a huge like living room party going on all the time, if that makes sense. There has yet to be any problems. So, I don’t think there is anything wrong with that. We still say hi if we see each other, but we aren’t close by any means. I think you should be as close to them as you want to be.</p>