Scripps actually sounds good for what you want - very supportive of women in the sciences, 5,000students in the Claremonts (all colleges are adjacent and you can take classes any where), very much into women’spower so you’d learn how t deal with your parents… Thosr may not be the reasons tjat made your fathe choose it for you but you can make it work. If that were the only choice beside the colleges on the YOLA list wouldn’t you choose it?
I HIGHLY. doubt you can get into HMC if you can’t get into Scripps. Don’t waste your Ed2 on that.
Perhaps pick Barnsrd ED2?