You mentioned that your Dad went to Montana State. The extended family survived that decision, so no doubt they will survive whatever decision you make. I second the decison for Univ of British Columbia. Whistler/Blackcomb is heaven on earth. Personally, I think you should go to the best college you can get into that offers the life you want. New England isn’t Colorado, but there are some great ski resorts there. Waterville Valley is one of my favorites in NH. Good luck.