Ok so I’m a freshmen at VT with a bit of an interesting situation. I cam into college with a bunch of credits and took Differential equations (solid A), statics(had a solid A then lost focus and fell to a B in the final 2 weeks with the final), the intro to engineering course (A) and 2 liberal education classes(one of them was an A the other an A-). Anyway I came into college planning on majoring in aerospace engineering but have since changed my mind to no idea…I’m thinking mechanical because it “closes the least number of doors” career wise (a topic which I have no idea what I want to do and no idea of how to figure this out). For next semester I am signed up for Dynamics, Mechanics of Deformable bodies, Statistics, and another liberal education class which is a pretty light load credit number wise but has its own difficulties.
Now that you have that background here is my confusion. I was a pretty avid runner in high school and it was one of my favorite hobbies and have joined the club team in college. But I dont know how much I want to stay committed to this because while enjoyable I don’t know how it will help me in the future. The people on the team I would consider my only friends in college and I don’t know where I would meet a new group of friends but I also am one to not half-ass something and don’t know if I would rather focus on trying to figure out what i want to do career wise and also don’t know how I would go about doing this. I think I would like to try and get some sort of research position and do something academically enjoyable and not just doing problem sets and then something physically enjoyable like running. Sorry to have rambled on like that but here is what i want in the rest of my college experience:
- A close group of friends I can rely on and to eliminate the lonely feeling I have been having this first semester
- decent grades (I think I am aiming for a 3.5 in some form of engineering maybe mechanical)
- To have some sort of academic outside activity that I can use to find out what I enjoy and figure out what I want to do (internships,research, something else you guys might be able to suggest)
4.To still run because I do love the sport though I know I will probably just be running for fun and not to race competitively
So if you have any type of advice to any of these points and a way to find balance I would really appreciate it cause right now I am feeling more lost than ever.