<p>If your Dad isn’t going to pay, then your Mom should pay. You said she makes a very good salary so what’s the problem? You should not be penalized because of resentment by your Mom towards your Dad. If she’s the one making the money, then sit down with her and ask her exactly how much she will pay each year for your college. When you know that, you can better plan your college list based on affordability and your Mom’s finances.</p>