<p>i talked to her on the phone last night... she said she was scared and really really shocked by what i did. first she said i never showed any sign of liking her, or maybe she just coulnd't tell.. and secondly.. she just told me about two other guys asking her out and she MIGHT like one of them, i still asked her out.. so she was a bit confused. i think things are good now... i am confident that she liked me too.. i want to ask.. but i dont know what to say or how i can get that point across.. any suggestions?</p>
<p>ok... from a girl's point of view, she is probably just a little nervous for whatever reason. she obviously likes you so i think it is really only a matter of time, but if you really need to hear her say it you can find out by asking something like "do you think there might be a chance somewhere in the near future?" Kill 2 birds with one stone: you've found out if she liked you AND if she is interested enough to think about it. NOW FOCUS ON PRINCETON AND STOP WORRYING ABOUT AN INDECISIVE GIRL! g'luck!</p>
<p>dude, she's either playing you to satiate her insercurities or she's just being really flakey. ignore her, block her off. and DAMMIT don't keep calling her or emailing her about it. It makes her feel even more weirded out (true) and makes yuo seem needy, which from my YEARS of experience (or 3 at least), is the BIGGEST turnoff for a girl. Leave her, find someone else OR better yet, realize that the girl will mean nothing in 2 years and STUDY YOUR BUTT OFF FOR COLLEGE. c mon man, get yer priorities straight.</p>
<p>lol man. just concentrate for a couple of months...because u probably wont ever see that girl again, or wouldnt even care a cent for her in the end.</p>
<p>:mad:Hey guys! What's with all the girl bashing?! But I do completely agree with Hobbes: with a little bit of time, this girl most likely won't mean anything to you, probably in less than two years at that. Heck, you won't even be thinking about her second semester of next year! This is a mere speed-bump on your road of life.</p>
<p>And if "Having an interest in the sciences will also hurt you" in this chick's opinion, then she is not even worth your time. Stop calling her! Say hi in school, be friendly, but stop pursuing her so hard core! Seriously, I am a girl and believe me, I know that chicks like to power trip just as much as guys do, brag to their friends about how many guys are giving them attention (although it may come out looking like complaining about not knowing what to do with all that attention :rolleyes: oy vey). I've done it. Don't let her string you along like that if she's just flaking out. I must insist, just be nice when you see her around, but it is probably best to quit pursuing her. If she wants you, she'll come back, make an effort to be around you more often; but if not, she's not worth it. Focus on YOU. You have awesome things to move on to, so don't let high school drama slow you down.</p>
<p>alright guys. i just took my sat today.. i have to say. i was quite focuses.. but i dont know how i did tho.. i hate comparing answers with ppl online these days.. makes me go "omg so many wrongs" :( anyhow... ill soon forget this high school drama...</p>
<p>on a serious note.. hope to see you at princeton if i ever get in....</p>