How do you deal with jerks?

<p>By jerks, I don't mean people that you just don't like. I mean people who will go OUT OF THEIR WAY to upset you.</p>

<p>E.G. That one idiotic cheerleader who keeps putting her shoes on TOP of my desk during class.</p>

<p>E.G. The kid who will take your stuff while you're not looking and keep it for like 20 minutes.</p>

<p>E.G. People who kick your backpack.</p>

<p>E.G. People who make rude comments to your face while you're there when you don't even know them.</p>

<p>I wouldn't classify them as "bullies", because I'm not intimidated by them and they do it to other people.</p>

<p>I usually just ignore them and don't even say anything in attempt to make them feel bad about themselves, but that usually doesn't work. I daydream of hurting them, though.</p>

<p>Re: the shoes. One rainy day when it’s muddy, walk through the mud, put the shoes on the floor (making a show of being very gentle with them) and discreetly kick them during class.</p>

<p>Re: backpack-kickers. Stick your legs out real far to either side of your desk, and only remove them for the teacher (if you’re concerned at all about his/her welfare). Not much else you can do.</p>

<p>Cheerleader, Wow my school don’t have jerks if you don’t know them.</p>

<p>Um I personally would tell her to **** OFF and be like “Hurr your cool”
Also ***** to the teacher</p>

<p>If someone takes my ****, I will have no problem on clawing at him until i get it cause it interfers with my education, also make note with my counselor, and NO SIT DOWN DISCUSIONS.</p>

<p>People who kick your backpack, put it somewhere out of reach, are you dumb are something?</p>

<p>People who make rude comments that you do not know just ignore them, good come backs are “Did i ask” “Do I care” “Ok” (Don’t pleasure them with your discomfort)</p>

<p>Personally at my school no one ****s with me if i don’t know them, maybe its cause of my presence, sometimes freshman are cocky and might attempt something dumb, it ends up with me dissing them out.</p>

<p>Make friends, and maybe they will defend you.</p>

<p>Simple is good:
-If you are bigger than them, beat the crap out of them
-If you are small, but rich, pay a big kid to beat the crap out of them
-If you are small, and poor, but smart, ‘pay’ a big, dumb kid to beat the crap out of them by doing his homework
-If you are small, poor and dumb, you are screwed</p>

<p>Um. I wouldn’t tell on them to your teacher, much less your counselor. Sure, it leaves a bad impression on them. But it leaves an even worse one for you.</p>

<p>I second the backpack suggestion. Move it somewhere else. Having backpacks in the middle of the room annoy them as much as their kicks annoy you. </p>

<p>Maybe the cheerleader doesn’t realize that her shoes irritate you. She probably doesn’t notice you and is just doing it for comfort (not to spite you). Tell her to get her shoes off your desk. “Hey, can you move your feet” should work.</p>

<p>People who take your stuff are really immature. Like, really? :stuck_out_tongue: Get a pencil bag and only take out what you need. Or tell them off. </p>

<p>Just ignore the rude comments. Roll your eyes or make some sarcastic/nonchalant comment back.</p>

<p>^^You will be killed by a mod. At least shorten it to L</p>

<p>ok
When the cheerleader puts her shoes on your desk, knock it off.
Every single time.
For Rude comments, if someone says “You have a big nose” or “You are ugly” just be like “um ok” or “thanks” or “k, i asked”</p>

<p>^^ Alright</p>

<p>I “could” beat them up, but I won’t do that. I refuse to sink to their level. I won’t tell on them, either. Who does that?</p>

<p>By “shoes”, I meant feet, but I guess pushing them off sounds like a good idea. I also meant that some people kick my stuff while I’m walking with it in congested areas.</p>

<p>So… Nobody else on here gets vexed by people?</p>

<p>“can you stop putting your feet on my desk please”</p>

<p>Are you implying that all cheerleaders are jerks?</p>

<p>Just ask her politely to stop. :)</p>

<p>You must be/look like a complete loser or nerd if people do that kinda stuff to you. Man up.</p>

<p>Be nice. Then maybe they’ll feel bad for you.</p>

<p>^^</p>

<p>They probably do it because I’m quiet, but they don’t do it specifically to me. They’ll do it to anybody they are near and who they think won’t defend themselves.</p>

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Please don’t tell me you have a rolling backpack.</p>

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<p>if someone’s a jerk to me, i take that as permission to be an even bigger jerk. no point in being polite to someone who can’t return the favor.</p>