<p>say you're in college, and everyone in your residence hall was social and friendly, but there is 1 person who is quiet and avoids people. would you be ****ed off at them for being so unfriendly?</p>
<p>because it seems like whenever i talk to college students that's how they feel toward the quiet guy/girl in their hall. like they hate them for not being fun. and im not a really talkative person, im actually pretty private but at the same time i dont want everyone to secretly be hating me for not being like them. it seems like all they do is gossip about that quiet person and call them weird behind their back. </p>
<p>for example if everyone is going to go to a movie together but that 1 person would rather stay behind and study. </p>
<p>its just i feel pressure to be social and everything when i go to college and that's not really who i am, you know? i mean im nice to people its just i don't open up easily.</p>
<p>No, because I'm the same way. It's called be extremely introverted. It's not bad, it's just a certain personality that people have. Now if you were afraid of social situations and/or told people to f off when they tried to talk to you, then they would probably have a reason to not like you and you would probably need to see a therapist. If you're just quiet, then you can try to be a little more outgoing and friendly, since you may just be coming off as unfriednly to them. However, unless you did something bad to just cheese them off, they don't have a reason to hate you, unless your school admits drama queens.</p>
<p>yea i wouldnt be mad or gossipy about them. i know a few people like that but its kinda just let them do as they please. my least favorite people are actually some of the loudest and most obnoxious</p>