<p>attracted to a girl who is not hot? This girl is like a 5 or a 6, but she's really, really cool. Just went home by myself, cuz I just couldn;t put the moves on her. Thing is, I think she's awesome. She's not ugly, she's just not hot. My friends even tried to get me to hook up with her, but I can't.</p>
<p>I just realize now, how all attraction is mostly physical. I cannot use my rational mind to hook up with her...
I really can't complain about women being shallow.</p>
<p>wutangfinancial has little-man syndrome</p>
<p>wutangfinancial, why are you so obsessed with the opposite sex? Finish college with good grades, get a good job, and 5-10 years later, you'll probably have your pick of more single mothers you could handle, if you're into that sort of thing...</p>
<p>By the way, it's probably not a good idea to marry a single mother (unless her husband died and she's a widow, that's different).</p>
<p>Your views of the opposite sex are so twisted. You clearly don't know how to treat a woman. If you're not attracted to her, then you're not. Get over it.</p>
<p>Do you realize how much you are objectifying her? If you're not attracted to her, fine. But don't make it seem like she's beneath you. I'm sure she has no trouble getting guys - how do you even know she was attracted to you?</p>
<p>this is a joke right?</p>
<p>Find one feature about her that you find attractive and focus on that. Just keep thinking about it and you should be able to do it.</p>
<p>Jack off to her picture over and over. Condition yourself. It works.</p>
<p>Once you become older, you get less horny and will probably marry based on other qualities. Most dating studies/personal anecdotes etc. are written by young people where hooking up with attractive/rich people actually matters.</p>
<p>vail....men have libidos....i mean..ya making a good living in the long run is a great goal...but really, you only live once, and all we really wanna do is get laid with hot chicks and have a good time.
like...sure, i COULD go study in washington, DC and get some cushy internship with lots of connections....but i'd rather go study in madrid or amsterdam and get some wild euro-action.</p>
<p>it's college, you only got a few years here, the work, responsibility, money...we've got our whole lives on that.</p>
<p>wutang--dood just relax and don't think about hooking up, go to a party with her, chill, relax, and if it's meant to happen by some twist of fate, it's meant to happen. it's all good, attraction is way more than physical, it has to be.</p>
<p>I don't understand guys like Vail and Deluxehardballer. Why do have such hateful attitudes towards women? You realize that money is becoming less important, and looks/personality much, much more important for men, right? Women are increasingly financially independent, and waiting to find a gold digger will not make you happy. Have you never been loved or been in love? How can your hearts be so cold? Youth is precious. You only get to be college aged once. The goal of aquiring wealth is not a bad goal, but is far from complete. Money is an instrumental good, and not self-sufficent for achieving happiness. Love and happiness, on the other hand, are complete goods, for if you have both, what else are you lacking?</p>
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<li><p>why do you want to have sex with her if your not attracted to her</p></li>
<li><p>does she even want to have sex with you?</p></li>
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<li>cuz i like her, but not in the right way, but when I'm drunk i get kind of attracted to her, but then I just couldn't do it.</li>
<li>yep, she was kind of annoyed/insulted last night.</li>
<li>I feel weird, cuz I brought her out to the club, bought her a couple drinks, etc. in typical fashion for getting it on. In other words, I confused myself.</li>
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<p>dood...i think you're pulling it right, making her wait's gonna drive her even more crazy...
invite her on a random date now...do something unexpected</p>
<p>just hook up with her and never call her again</p>
<p>EASY</p>
<p>Just be her friend. I can't get myself to hook up w/ unnattractive girls either. Which leaves me quite lonely as you could imagine.</p>
<p>Scenario: Girls at beach try to flirt with me. Girls are unnattractive. I turn the other way, but still politely excuse myself.</p>
<p>"Hateful attitudes toward women"? How on earth did you get that from my post? Are all women single mothers (whom I don't have a "hateful attitude" toward anyway)? Furthermore, DeluxeHardballer didn't even mention women in his post -_-</p>
<p>Believe you me, I don't want anything to do with a gold digger, I was suggesting patience for you, since you often talk about how much trouble you're having getting girls (at least, that's half the time, then you're talking about how many women you've been "hooking up" with all the time...are you sharing accounts with someone wutang?)</p>
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<p>Maybe someday, you'll recognize that all males aren't hedonists.</p>
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No, but I really do think all guys (at least to a certain age) have those desires. Some just control/suppress it more than others.</p>
<p>Every time I hit new posts, I see you post a thread on your latest 'infatuation'....<em>sigh</em></p>
<p>^LMAO. Sooooo true.</p>