<p>Lol I just took that test and came out ITNJ as well. I don’t believe in zodiac signs though. It makes no sense that what time of the year you were born decades ago affects you now.</p>
<p>You ‘consulted’ an armchair psychology personality test (INTJ as well btw) and a pseudoscience and you’ve concluded you’re not able to be sociable? Give me a break dude. With that kind of attitude you most certainly will not make many friends. Look, I understand where you’re coming from because I used to think like you but you’ve gotta at least TRY. No college is 100% like Animal House. Even the most wild ones still have ‘nerdy’ people. But you won’t meet them unless you TRY. Never give up, or at least don’t give up until you’ve tried a few times. Hell I haven’t made a single solid great friend since high school (graduated two years ago) and while I’m losing the will to try, I’m still going to try. You can too.</p>
<p>I was hoping you guys would pick up that when I said I “consulted” them, I wasn’t being serious. Thanks for the advice, I guess.</p>
<p>My question is: Outside of partying, what are some other ways to make friends? What are some good outlets for making friends? </p>
<p>I’m talking about low-stress ways of meeting people without taking away too much of your time or getting in trouble. I only assumed that going up to some kid and saying, “hey!” would not be the optimal method of doing this.</p>
<p>^Don’t go up to random people on campus and just say “hey” lol that’ll stick with you and people will learn to avoid you. Say hello or hey to people in your class that are sitting next to you. Introduce yourself, start up a conversation. That’s what this one girl did with me last year on the first day of school and now she’s one of my best friends.</p>
<p>/\ see i do the opposite of what marco is doing. Im more likely to become friends with someone outside of class because of the spontaneity of the situation. In a class room setting every thing is forced it seems like.</p>
<p>Its so easy a caveman can do it</p>
<p>Talk to people in class, join clubs, talk to dormmates, meet friends’ mutual friends…</p>