<p>We will be visiting one soon but the other is about a 6 + hour drive and so far there is only one more on the list. The problem is she goes to a pretty intense high school and really wants a school where kids are serious about their academics - the one safety school we saw so far she sat in on a class and liked the teacher but felt kids weren’t involved - I know this was only one class which we told her as well. I am also concerned about it but will push to go to a few more!
I think it really is a tough issue - is going to college for the sake of going to college but somewhere you don’t feel challenged worth it, she is young and could take a gap year and try again after doing some real life stuff if worst came to worst.</p>