<p>If it comes to pass that your do have to choose between Harvard, Yale and Stanford, you will need to sit down with them and have an adult discussion about why you feel that Harvard is best for you. Specific reasons - such as courses - are appropriate - as well as your own reactions to the different schools. You may find that presenting this on paper will make it seem more professional and well reasoned.</p>
<p>And - if its between Yale and Stanford, for heaven sake leave out the part about the hippie vibe, LOL. Relatives are a talking point, however.</p>