I used to operate under the misconception that people outside of College Confidential (i.e. “the real world”) are as acutely conscious of prestige and college rankings as those who regularly use CC.
Someone mentioned that very few people could tell you all the schools in the ivy league - and I think that is 100% correct. Other than a select handful (I’m thinking maybe 3 or 4 kids) in my high school, most kids didn’t really understand what the ivy league was. They thought that the “Ivy League” was a distinction for schools that weren’t just good, but really, really good. I’ve heard people ask “MIT is an ivy league, right?” or “What do you mean Stanford isn’t an Ivy?” What’s particularly interesting is that they’d believe schools like MIT and Stanford were in the Ivy League, but then they wouldn’t think of Cornell or Columbia.
Everyone (or mostly everyone) where I grew up (middle class/working class suburb) knew that Harvard was a good school. When asked about schools they thought were impressive, students usually listed Harvard, followed by Boston University, Boston College, and UMass Amherst - all in one list. This was usually students in the top 20% of the class. When you talked to students who were perhaps in the bottom half of the class, anything that wasn’t a community college was considered pretty prestigious - and even then, community colleges were still seen as good schools. Kids were proud of relatives and friends who were enrolled in a community college because they were making a better life for themselves (which they are) - and then other kids would scoff at community colleges as a viable option for higher education.
I remember the day after Northeastern University released decisions and only a few kids were admitted (about 50 were rejected - something like 7 or 8 were accepted). I was accepted and I was approached by Juniors and Sophomores who congratulated me, explaining to me that Northeastern was their “ultimate dream school.” I had kids tell me that I “must’ve killed it on the SAT” or the like. My classmates tried to insinuate that if I could manage an acceptance to Northeastern, then there would be no question that I’d get into Harvard. (Because in their mind, Northeastern and Harvard are peers - since both are selective schools in Boston/Cambridge - even though Harvard is exceptionally more selective - but that didn’t matter to them.)
When I didn’t get into Harvard, people were genuinely surprised. They thought that smart kids go to Harvard, plain and simple. So if a kid is smart, makes A’s most of the time, does well on the SAT, then that’s that - you’re Harvard bound. What was particularly bizarre was that I had teachers who told me that they were looking at gifts to get me for when I was accepted… To be frank, I had a snowball’s chance in Hell of getting into Harvard - I knew that from the jump; I only applied because “~you never know~” or whatever and I had an interesting story to tell blahblahblah but my teachers didn’t think that way. They thought that I’d be going to Harvard.
When I chose a “less prestigious” school than Northeastern to attend, people were downright shocked. I’d tell someone “I’m going to ______” and they’d respond “But you were accepted to Northeastern!” I didn’t try to argue with them because I knew they meant well. But it was all just so funny.
Real world prestige and College Confidential prestige are two very different things.