how likely is it for nerds to date?

<p>how often do hot girls ever go dating with nerds - those with no life, few friends, lack social skills and may be shy, but get good grades, are nice, and are funny in an immature way?</p>

<p>HAHAHA this is hilarious... Its hard for me to type due to my incessant laughter...</p>

<p>It is rare for a "hot girl" to date a "nerd," although both of those terms are relative. People usually date people who are as attractive as they are.</p>

<p>I'm a nerd and have a hot girlfriend. Except I have an exceptionally busy/ involved life, alot of friends (in my fraternity and out), have some social skills (if a little arrogant?), and I'm sort of outgoing. So in short...</p>

<p>very, very rare.</p>

<p>I wish there were better terms than just nerd and geek...</p>

<p>ugly nerds can expect ugly chicks, and hot nerds can expect hot girls...as simple as that.</p>

<p>well nerds can be all types. there are really social and funny nerds, there are very good looking nerds, the list goes on.</p>

<p>but the type of nerd you described probably won't get a "hot" girl unless he is "hot" himself.</p>

<p>if you're a nerd and not attractive i'm sure its possible to get "hot" girls, youll just have to compensate with personality and game.</p>

<p>How old are you? If you haven't learned this by now, you have a hard road ahead of you. If women, let alone "hot" ones cared anything about good grades, niceness, and how funny you are, you would find a lot of nerds with girlfriends, and really hot ones. </p>

<p>Seeing as nerds are some of the nicest, funniest, and smartest people I've ever met and most are severely and sorely lacking in dates or girlfriends of any kind its obvious the above hold very little importance to females.</p>

<p>At our age looks matter the most, with perceived social status, and style coming in 2nd and 3rd respectively. Since nerds are usually lacking in that trifecta that would explain their situation.</p>

<p>Money is the most important when we're older. You can't do much about your looks but you can blow everyone outta the water if you do good in school and make a hell of a lot of money later. You see the women that ugly, old, bald RICH man Donald Trump and every other ugly, old, bald, RICH men are pullin. Yeah...they ain't no abercrombie models. Here you can win. I know some girls will come on here and be like "blah blah, lies lies, I'm not like that, women aren't like that". But life speaks for itself.</p>

<p>But by then you'll probably be a broken, soulless, unloved man from all of the rejection you've faced, and your once shining personality will be gone from the hardships and loneliness of life so you won't enjoy it as you would've in your youth.</p>

<p>Then you'll die. Take solace in this. And hope it is swift.</p>

<p>lmao..anna nicole smith and her 80 year old husband</p>

<p>then they both died.</p>

<p>ya, this is pretty obvious, nerd is a subjective term also, because take any school in teh top 20, everyone there is a nerd pretty much, except maybee the athletes, relative to the rest of society, but it really depends, also good looks is subjective, while it is pretty obvious what person is good looking, different chicks have different types of guys that they like. Basically the way I look at it, good looks gets you in the door, then its probably your personality that keeps yout there. Obviously, if your face looks like it got lit on fire and stomped out with a track shoe, your gonna have some trouble, but besides that just be "yourself " , and chicks will come, .... hopefully.</p>

<p>ya i would say we need to identify exactly what a "nerd" is? if a nerd is any person who gets really good grades or studies at all then i am a nerd. but im also good looking and a varsity athlete so i dont think of myself as a "nerd". i would think of a nerd as one who doesnt socialize and studies all the time...and honestly if you study all the time and dont go to parties or hit on girls then how are you supposed to get a hot girlfriend? </p>

<p>therefore, i deduce that it is impossible due to logic for a nerd to have a hot girlfriend unless he changes his nerdy ways</p>

<p>it is possible for nerds to pick up hot girls.</p>

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<p>Haha, well, how am I going to meet someone if all they do is study all the time and have no life? </p>

<p>I like geeks, not nerds. Geek has an added quality to it, you have to be into weird stuff that "normal" people aren't, like magic the gathering, D&D, or bad 70's sci-fi shows, or something else gloriously random and a little off. I think these type of guys, as long as they are somewhat decent-looking (don't have to be OMGHOT but got to be a little cute) and have good hygiene, etc, are adorable, because I'm pretty geeky myself. I probably go for those kind of guys about 75% of the time over the stereotypical "hot guy".</p>

<p>^^ ya let the girls speak, the "hot" ones and solve my little friend's problem up there....</p>

<p>Well, obviously. Everyone has different definitions of what they find attractive. I'm not attracted to my friend Phil, but his girlfriend thinks he's the sexiest man alive. Same for my friend Marie's boyfriend; I'm not attracted to him but Marie is. That is not to say that Marie's bf or my friend Phil are unattractive or ugly, neither of them are, just that I don't personally find them attractive. I am neutral to their looks.</p>

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<p>If you never leave your room you'll never find a girl.</p>

<p>^^^aulostchick, when couple are together and "in love", they are blind, i mean they should be, right? if you are married to a guy for five years and really loved him, would you be checking out people how "fine" they are on the street? Of course, you can think that they're ugly or good looking, but you keep that to yourself because you know better! i am just saying how i feel about these thing, don't quote</p>

<p>yeah, but something had to attract that other person in the first place right? You don't just fall in love with someone who's butt-ugly because they're really nice and sweet. Okay, well, maybe some people do, but that's not really generally how it works. Something about them had to attract you first. Personally, I really like really deep brown eyes, and dark hair (preferably curly/wavy). And I mentioned the geeky thing, that's a clincher. </p>

<p>My friend is very vocal in her adoration of George Clooney. So she doesn't just have eyes for her bf, and no one else, ever.</p>

<p>My long-term girlfriend and I joke about how much I look like so many other guys. I'm totally the generic looking white guy. Apparently it's just my great personality that keeps her around.</p>

<p>pick up a little on the social skills and you'll do fine. Not everyone is out there to label and categorize people.</p>

<p>"how often do hot girls ever go dating with nerds - those with no life, few friends, lack social skills and may be shy, but get good grades, are nice, and are funny in an immature way?"</p>

<p>How often do hot guys date nerdy girls- those with no life, few friends, lack social skills and may be shy, but get good grades, are nice, and are funny in an immature way?</p>

<p>That's the answer to your question.</p>

<p>Most people date folks who are very similar to themselves in terms of looks, intelligence, interests and social skills.</p>

<p>you find someone with the same physical attractiveness as yourself</p>

<p>thats the way the game works</p>