<p>I came to U.S less than a month ago, and have some problems with adjusting (never lived in English-speaking countries before). I can feel the language barrier, especially with speaking - though I don't really have problem understanding the lectures or can't deliver the things I want to say but I'm just not natural.<br>
And my college kind of notorious for lack of diversity; most of the students are whites from upper class, quite preppy and always well dressed-up.
As time goes by, I feel more and more intimidated, less confident with myself, and unsatisfied. - I just don't feel like fitting in at all...</p>
<p>So, the question is, how long did it take for you guys to adjust?
Some of the people I met told me that it is all part of the culture shock and I should be fine after a few months...-I mean, after all, it hasn't been a month yet.
or do I have to consider transferring into other schools?</p>
<p>I’m not in college yet, so my post will probably be insignificant to you. I just wanted to tell you to keep your head up and don’t let things like theese upset you. I’m sure you are a person with a strong spirit and you can make it through this. Be a fighter! Don’t fall in despair and soon you will start to like it. I am sure! Remember - you had a dream and you followed it. Be happy about it!</p>
<p>Now give me a smile and don’t worry too much</p>
<p>This process does take time. Unfortunately, just when you feel perfectly comfortable, it will be almost the end of the school year! But, this is normal. Many of your US classmates are experiencing many of the same kinds of adjustment, it is just that you can’t tell by looking at them.</p>
<p>My recommendation would be to pay a visit to the international student office at your school. They have a lot of experience helping new students adjust, and can introduce you to other international students who have been at your school for a year or two. Talking to someone who has been through what you are experiencing now will really help.</p>
<p>You also can do some reading on “culture shock”. My favorite book is “The Art of Crossing Cultures” by Craig Storti. Many books discuss the stages of cultural adjustment, but Storti is the only writer that I have found who suggests specific actions that you can take to help the process go more smoothly. </p>