<p>I was wondering how long it takes to form genuine friendships with the people you meet at college? I've been at college for about a week and I definitely like some people (who hopefully like me back), but I wouldn't say we're <em>friends</em> yet. I completely understand that it takes time to develop and solidify relationships with others, but about how long does it take to actually befriend people? P.S. I've had to deal with some fake friends in the past who acted nice to my face but did not respect me at all behind my back, which is why I'm a bit insecure about this. Do you have any advice on how to determine if people are just humoring your presence/don't actually like you, and when to move on and meet new people if this is the case? I realize this might sound a bit trollish, but please bear with me.</p>
<p>I would say that your set of friends will be established by the end of this year.</p>
<p>That was my experience. (albeit from 40 years ago)</p>
<p>And then, by June, you will have 3 or 4 guys who you could see yourself moving off campus with.</p>
<p>But I would join a frat.</p>
<p>I didn’t do that, and it was a BIG mistake.</p>
<p>It took me until Sophomore year to find my true group of friends, but getting to know them only took a month. Sometimes, you just know when people are good.</p>