How long does it usually take for things to "fall into place"

<p>The past couple of years have been very strange because I started out at a school I had no interest in that had no social life or anything, I transferred to a community college for three semesters and only focused on academics so that I could transfer to a 4 year school and have the so called "college life". Now I'm 2 months in and enjoying it immensely. A constant fear of mine though is the feeling that things have already fallen into place and that it is no longer early in the year. What I mean by this is that everything feels routine and there isn't anything new to look forward to. For example, I would like to meet a girl to date but that hasn't happened yet (then again it took a couple of semesters for any of my friends at other schools to meet their girlfriends/boyfriends) but since I'm a transfer student I never really had the "freshman experience" so that also worries me.</p>

<p>I'll hopefully be a soph. transfer next year, and I wouldn't be surprised if I made a lot of freshman friends and would be able to relive the experience. The only that that might hold me back is the scathing memory of a school that sucked the energy out of me. I think i'll be fine though.</p>

<p>->The only that that might hold me back is the scathing memory of a school that sucked the energy out of me. I think i'll be fine though.</p>

<p>What school is this?</p>

<p>sorry I thought I changed my location. I'm in U. Wisconsin but just a satellite school on the "side of parks"</p>