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Navy2010 - as usual, a very frank and qualitative response from one of the great supporters of this forum! Thanks for your long post.
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<p>thanks. unfortunately, "succient" is something i still struggle with. :o</p>
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You stayed away from the unspeakable question, however, i.e. what to do when your s/d wants Annapolis but has an Appointment or 4-yr ROTC scholarship elsewhere else when April 30th roles around
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<p>It is not that I stayed away from this question, it is just that I lack the experience to comment on this one. Our mid did not go the NROTC route... specifically because he wanted to study a specific major, plus lax, and the combo produced 6 schools to look at.... one of which was USNA, and the rest did not offer NROTC programs. </p>
<p>What I did suggest was that "If you have been offered an NROTC scholarship at a school "on your list," do not let it go. Respond by the stated deadline or else risk losing it." I still think that applies, even if USNA is in the running for class of 2012. "a bird in the hand" comes immediately to mind, and there are no guarentees that, even with a repeat application to 2012, it will happen....many kids have gone 3 rounds and still come up short.</p>
<p>But most important... I would not let May 1 roll past without accepting some school on your "list." DO NOT fail to act in the hopes of getting some last-minute appointment to USNA....that, IMHO, would be a huge mistake.</p>
<p>Whatever you do, the best advice I can offer is to support your kid, ESPECIALLY if the fat letter comes.....</p>
<p>....and EVEN MORE SO if it doesn't. Let him/her grieve (and parents grieve too)...but limit the time... and then get behind them 100% at whatever school they choose. Go and visit that school again- buy the sweatshirt and put the sticker on the car. Embrace it and support it, and let the dissapointment over USNA fade. Let them get settled at their new home, no matter where that may be. If USNA remains a desire, it will declare itself...but let them come to that. If the parent is the one to ressurect the application to USNA, the message to the kid might just be that saint elsewhere is "just not good enough" and that somehow they "failed" you...when in fact there are many, many other factors that come into play that are in no one's control. So be sure to jump up and down and make a fuss no matter what acceptances come their way.... and do it with joy in your heart. </p>
<p>USNA is great- we are so lucky- but we could have been just as unlucky, and sadly there will be lots of steller kids turned away. And while I may bleed Blue and Gold, there are other just-as-terrific schools out there where your kid will thrive....and where they can still end up as Naval Officers if that is the path they have chosen. Some will even swear that route proved better for them in the long run- who's to say!</p>
<p>As for USCGA- best of luck br2011- I dated a coastie many moons ago...( I will spare you the details!!) and just remember, you do have bragging rights to THE BEST SHIP on the water barr none!!!
(ps...did you know connecticut college is right across the street???? opens up lots of unforseen opportunities..... just ask Boss051....his son rows for the crew team, and the reason their boat is so fast is that they are busy chasing the connecticut college's girls team down the thames!!!!) LOL!!! :)</p>