<p>My D, too, applied to 13 schools. She had two lists: auditioned and non-auditioned. The first group had reaches/slightly less reaches, and the second had reaches/matches/safeties. She applied EA and rolling as much as she could, and she had some answers at the end of the fall, but only from non-auditioned schools. So we went through the whole process with all 13 schools. She got into 7, was rejected by 5 (all reaches) and turned down one waitlist (we’ll never know if she would have gotten in).</p>
<p>By spring, she was much less interested in some of the schools than she had been in the fall. But it was very important to her to have lots of choices, and I decided it was important to me to let her have choices, even though the application/test score fees probably cost me an extra several hundred dollars. </p>
<p>I probably would have discouraged her from adding any more schools (she did do a walk-in at Unifieds, but never applied there - it was just to warm up), because there is a point where you aren’t going to increase odds, and you are increasing stress and cost. But 10-15 schools for this kind of kid is absolutely typical. </p>
<p>In retrospect, “should” she have applied to the reaches, since we could have predicted that she was going to be rejected? I certainly wasn’t going to tell her not to apply to those schools - who was I to say it wasn’t even worth trying? You never know. Some kids would rather not have the rejection - my kid wasn’t happy being rejected (she got 4 of them in ONE day), but she survived. </p>
<p>I did at one point suggest that she tell some of the EA/rolling schools she had decided against that she definitely wouldn’t be going there - since it was well before April 1, we figured she was giving someone else a spot. That was why she turned down the WL at one school. But she achieved her goal of having lots of options. Her decision was stressful, but it meant the world to her to go through the hard process of choosing her path.</p>
<p>It really was no extra work for her guidance dept to send out a few more pieces of mail, or for Pete’s sake press a button on a computer! The stuff they sent was the same if she had had 1 school, 5 schools, or 20. It’s just crabbiness for someone to make a kid feel bad about keeping options open. Clearly they have no idea what it means to be trying for auditioned programs. Might as well just ignore it.</p>