My question is inspired by another thread which mentions 30 hours of EC’s plus 15 hours of family responsibilities a week - I didn’t want to highjack that thread, but that got me thinking - would my daughter look like a “low-weight” in college admissions?
She has a rigorous courseload of 5 APs and 1 DE class and about 10 hrs/a week of non-athletic in-school EC’s that take no extra time to get there, so ”pure time”. She also has about 10/hrs a week of non-school AC’s, and probably spends about 8 hours or so transporting herself to and from, since many are just 1-2 hours long each week. Still, it is just 10 hrs, not 18 of pure time.
She also has family responsibilities that vary week to week, and can’t always classify as responsibilities - I.e. she coaches her younger brother in swimming for an hour a week (+ 1 hr to/from pool), but she also attends some of his swim meets, which may add another 5-6 hours a week. On top of that are 2-4 hours a week of house chores - she is reluctant to list them on the application because we are not low-income and she is not financially forced to do these things so that her parents can work a second job, etc.
There are only so many hours left in a week after adequate sleep, eat + hygiene and school are subtracted, by my calculations 45-50 hours. Of those hours, at least 10 need to be devoted to homework, 28 to her current EC’s (that appear as 20 in the application), which leaves about 7-12 hours a week she spends on house chores, coaching her brother, working on college apps, and going out with friends for a couple hours a week.
The question is - should I suggest she stops doing house chores and coaching her brother/attending swim meets and gets a job for say 8 hours a week, to bring her app-listed EC hours to 28? Is there an expected range selective colleges want to see?
I know everyone says “follow your passions and do what you feel drawn to”, but at the end of the day, if that doesn’t align with what colleges are looking for, you are out of luck.
Thank you!