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Fair enough, it’s your life. But you do admit that there are certain risks. So then it’s perfectly logical that some people just do not want to take those risks.</p>
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I agree with you again. But I’m not the one who started talking about the manliness of various activities, am I?</p>
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<p>Touched a nerve, have we? If you’re going with the ‘All Men are Sex Addicts’ stereotype, then I’m going with the “All Golfers are wimps who can’t play Real Sports” one.</p>
<p>…How does grinding correlate to sex? You make no sense brah. It’s just a guy and a girl dancing close. </p>
<p>Oh btw have you seen Tiger Woods? He’s BUILT. As is Dustin Johnson. As is Luke Donald. As are most golfers. You don’t understand how much core strength you need to have to even hit a decent shot and the amount of arm strength you need to control your stroke.</p>
<p>I do have to say, golf players aren’t wimps.</p>
<p>I know a few.</p>
<p>On rare occasions, some parties are soo WILD for me, while others are too DULE.
I usually go standerized better than average ones.</p>
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<p>You’re completely missing the point with what I said about golf. It was meant to be an offensive response to the equally offensive ‘joke’ “If you’re a guy who doesn’t like grinding then you’re not a guy. End of story.”</p>
<p>Well I mean honestly what guy doesn’t like dancing close with another girl? At my prom EVERY guy grinds with/on a girl unless they’re gay (no hate, being serious). And I go to a pretty “smart” school.</p>
<p>What if we don’t like dancing?</p>
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What if they think that rubbing their ***** on a girl’s ass in public is inappropriate? What if they just feel uncomfortable doing something that suggestive in public? What if they think that grinding is one of the most stupid looking dance moves ever? Or, like MIT said, what if they just don’t like dancing?</p>
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<p>This is absolutely ridiculous.</p>
<p>Haha I was literally just listening to a brother ali song where he goes “and if I ask you to dance we gon’ actually dance, I aint just gonna rub my pecker on the back of your pants.” hahahaha </p>
<p>no but grinding is sick</p>
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<li>I don’t know what dances/parties you go to, but it’s usually pretty dark aka no one can see within a 3 foot radius</li>
<li>I’ve never looked at it as suggestive…did you know the waltz was suggestive back in the day? Yeah.</li>
<li><p>Grinding isn’t a dance move…it’s just moving your body in synchrony with the girls body and you’re touching. Big woop. </p></li>
<li><p>If you don’t like DANCING, aka like ballet or jazz or w/e, I don’t blame you, I don’t like that either. But grinding is more of a process.</p></li>
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<p>Bdangle:
*“no but grinding is sick” *-> Lol, I’d say something, but I’m not sure which way you’re using sick here.</p>
<p>golfer:
“1. I don’t know what dances/parties you go to, but it’s usually pretty dark aka no one can see within a 3 foot radius” -> Which is… completely irrelevant.</p>
<p>“2. I’ve never looked at it as suggestive.” -> I think you’re in a minority here.</p>
<p>“3. Grinding isn’t a dance move…it’s just moving your body in synchrony with the girls body and you’re touching. Big woop.” -> How does this square with #2? It’s not a dance move, but it’s unrelated to sex? So what is it? Yoga?</p>
<p>“4. If you don’t like DANCING, aka like ballet or jazz or w/e, I don’t blame you, I don’t like that either. But grinding is more of a process.” -> Oh, so that’s what grinding is - a process. WTH does that even mean?</p>
<p>Um, from a girls perspective, I don’t think its that bad, its not like hooking up with someone or anything. I was just at my prom the other day and everyone was, no big deal.</p>
<p>^If this was at me: I never said that grinding was ‘bad’. I was simply arguing that it is possible for a hypothetical male to dislike grinding, without sacrificing his masculinity.</p>
<p>I obviously meant sick as in cool. </p>
<p>And golfer, I’m gonna have to disagree with you. Half of the fun of grinding is doing something that is suggestive, but in the middle of a bunch of other people who are doing the same thing. Also, the other half of the fun is when the two “dancers” get hot in heavy, to the point of hookig up haha. The dances at my school are pretty redonk. </p>
<p>The thing is, many girls who are fine with grinding don’t think it is suggestive, which can throw a brotha off when things get real sexy but the girl means nothing by it</p>
<p>Haha I feel ya Bdangle…I kinda messed up in my explanation. I personally don’t FIND it to be suggestive…I consider hooking up to be “suggestive”, although grinding at my school will definitely get reallyyyy intense. </p>
<p>I just find grinding to be fun (if the girl gets into it) and it has the potential to lead to something bigger and better lol.</p>
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Eh, what? Hooking up is not suggestive. Hooking up is what suggestive things suggest!</p>
<p>Is you jones harry? Now THAT’S suggestive</p>
<p>Never.
M’be in college.
Under my parents, I’m kind of scared to do anything LOL</p>
<p>I’m a cheerleader, so I’ve been invited to a few parties a year; however, cheerleaders in my school tend not to go to skank parties with drunk barely-clothed girls hanging all over stoned guys. </p>
<p>I hate grinding and guys who won’t accept that I won’t do it. I don’t like being that close to anybody in a hot, overly-crowded, public environment, especially if the people are drunk or high. It is too much like sex, which should be private.</p>