<p>First of all, this is a very personal question with a very personal answer tailored to your financial philosophies and situation. Too many people I know take the college payments and loans part of finances separate from the rest of their money. You can "beat the system" in financial aid and adversely affect the rest of your finances.</p>
<p>My personal opinion about loans is that the Stafford limits are a good guide. The amounts increase as the student goes further through school to take into account increases in tuition. It is also approximately an average of what student debt runs. You can get an idea of those figures by running through USN&WR student debt numbers. </p>
<p>So in our case, we were looking as a guideline for our S, loans of $5500 his first year which we would match with $5500 in PLUS loans. He had savings and jobs for the summer after graduations. Did not work first semester as a freshman but now has a job 10 hours a week this second semester. He figured that he could comfortably pay about $3K this first year. We had savings and our budget allowed for some payments too. $40K was the most we felt we could pay without running into issues.. $30K was our comfort zone. College had a COA of $47K, but they threw in a $10K merit award and he got a $5K outside award that made his first choice within range. We did make changes to our original plan, but it gave us a good starting point and we were aware how far we were straying as we made changes. </p>
<p>This term he is netting about $50 a week from his job. Just found out by working brunch shift at the cafeteria, he could eat for free that meal and earn some money there. Also is doing a dinner shift on a light day which means 3 out of 21 meals are now paid and he gets another $30 in pocket for the week. He has managed to get most of his books from the library, and his job allows for free copying and some school supplies which is putting him in good shape. He intends to work during spring break and will double shiff over the summer. He could have taken out less in Staffords, but we asked him to take the maximum and we will take care of the excess since his interest rate is better than the PLUS rate we would get.</p>
<p>Had he gone to one of the choices that was expensive and did not give him any merit money, he would have had a COA of $54K with only the $5K outside award. That would have meant $38 K would have had to have been paid out of his and our savings and incomes after the $11K in loans. Sure enough, it was about $15K outside of our comfort zone.</p>
<p>Even though this came out lower than our max, it's been tough. Unexpected and unbudgeted expenses always come up. With the buffer of his jobs, he has been able to go skiing, expensive. H and I spent a few days out there to visit and look around when he moved into the dorms which was expensive and not in the budget except as a plane ticket for him. I spent a lot in the bookstore for souveniers and visited Target for, God only knows what for his room. We want to visit this spring as well. He took advantage of some things before school that cut short his summer earnings and cost money as well, something well worth it but expensive, none the less. We also forgot to budget in graduation for S2 who will finishing up this spring, and we will spring for a trip up to his school which means travel expenses, hotel, food, celebration,gift, none of which we had in our projected budget.</p>