Hi, I am a new parent here with no prior experience in music, music majors, music careers, or music college admissions. We are at a loss for this whole world, and could use some btdt.
My main question is how much does a kid who wants to go to music school/college in music need to keep pushing academically in normal school stuff?
We are homeschooling our sophomore son, set to graduate in 2024, partially because of his desire (amplified by covid shutdowns) to spend more time on music, partially because of our limited local HS. He has more access to multiple ensembles this way. He plays alto sax, all-state for last 3 years for both classical and jazz, but he loves jazz.
He also doubles on clarinet and flute, sings in choir and cantors at church. He takes private sax lessons and jazz vocal lessons. He is in an audition-chaired school band for wind ensemble+ jazz band and school choir.
As a 9th grader, he was far ahead of peers. Took the ACT, got a 34. He took DE/CC for college chem and econ, took AP calc BC + other normal honors classes. All As, but burned out on covid-induced online school at CC. This year, he barely cares about school. I am dragging him across the finish line in his courses. Still getting As for courses he hasn’t dropped, but pulling teeth to do it. Only thing he cares about is playing music and his part time job (where he has time to listen to music all the time.) Otherwise, distracted by music. He plays in on gigs with old guys’ big bands. He teaches other kids how to play sax and clarinet. His free time is spent in combos with friends. But get him to write his essay on Pride and Prejudice? Almost impossible.
He and I need to make a plan for junior year. By the end of this yr, he will have taken 3 units of English, 2 of FL, 2 of math, 2 sci, 3 history. He still needs 1 unit of bio, 1 of physics, 2 more math, 1 English. (I’ve given up on getting him to take 2 more years of FL–he won’t study, and he won’t do well.)
How many liberties can I take? It’s becoming increasingly clear that this kid has no mind for anything but music now, but he’s only 16, and that could change tomorrow. I’m trying to keep the options open. He doesn’t know what he wants to do for college, but from where I’m standing, I can’t imagine him not wanting to keep playing.
So how much does the rigor of his course work matter if he decides to go for a BM? Does he need all his junior and senior year to be honors/AP for non music? Can we forego AP exams for DE/CC, which is often perceived as less rigorous? He’d rather take 3 CC classes a term, and spend the rest of his time in his school bands, playing, working on auditions, gigs. Will that look like he’s not working hard? All he wants is to keep gigging, playing, humming, singing jazz.
Any thoughts would be appreciated.