I have a confession. I really enjoy taxes and would have been a great tax specialist. I actually enjoy reading the regulations and figuring out how to apply them in clever ways to significantly reduce taxes. But, I don’t have the time to actually do returns. They are so complicated at this point – 80 to 100 pages (and I have two corporate returns as well). I’ve got foreign income, real estate, partnerships, a trust, and two company returns. Some forms, like the foreign tax credit, are completely incomprehensible to me – I can’t figure out the formula they are supposed to be applying. With AMT, which I thankfully don’t have to do any more, and foreign tax credits, you have to enter seemingly the same information a number of times. Very confusing.
@HImom and @mcat2, I have also never shared that much information about our assets with our kids. We don’t have enough that once they found out, they would realize they never have to work – they would still have to work. Even if I do succeed in making that much, it would be in a trust and only there for helping, not causing them not to work. We expect to have enough to make life a little easier – e.g., the downpayment on a house when they get there. We have lots of friends who are significantly wealthier than we are, but generally, I wouldn’t want kids to share that information. But, perhaps as they are young adults, I should explain to them what is there. There is the trust that keeps a fair bit of it away from their spouses in a divorce.
I don’t ask my kids to fill theirs out, though I may suggest that pretty soon. In some ways, I have been shielding ShawSon from stuff like this. He is taking a really hard graduate program and working fairly intensely and I don’t have the heart to siphon off his energy on tax forms. He truly throws himself completely at succeeding in whatever his endeavor is – this year it is grad school. Maybe next year when he is in business school. Plus, we have set up a couple of things that make the kids’ forms more complex than just filling out a basic 1040 form. But, we’ll have to get there some day soon.
@Iglooo, I didn’t have any reason to teach FAFSA to the kids or provide the information to them. We wouldn’t qualify for FA so I never filled out FAFSA. A financial advisor suggested I fill it out (can’t remember why) but I found it unclear and confusing given my sources of income. To put this in context, I have a PhD in a quantitative field, taught at a business school, and worked on Wall Street. If I found it confusing, it would be undoable for kids.
@dstark, I think a lot of the tax things make no sense and the tax laws should be greatly simplified. In the meantime (which is probably my whole life expectancy plus some), I will use the dumb laws they set up to my advantage. Lots of them seem silly to me, some in my favor and some not. Plus, I love the puzzle of setting things up to optimize against the rules.
