@srparent15 a friend’s H went right from law school to get extra degree or training in tax law - he is killing it. In early 60’s now - he just won a prestigious award. Only 8 from his large public law school (in top 25/country) have won this specific award.
Nephew chose not to go to NYC law firm after law school (he was #2 in his class and both he and #1 interned with a global 545 attorney law firm in NYC). He is a DA now - hired in as Asst DA to run for DA as DA was retiring, and had committed to continue for two terms (8 years) - then maybe onto other things. He also has PhD in Political Philosophy (obtained before law school; also taught tenure track history/4 years at college after PhD). Also was a Rhodes finalist; his wife has PhD/Political Philosophy. Not driven by money alone/first but QOL and the career he wants – he also does speak at political philosophy events and his book which came out of his PhD dissertation is used in colleges (hard cover and soft cover publications). His W and he are co-editing a book that they also contributed chapters; in editing process now.
Almost anybody who wants to go to law school can get admitted somewhere - so there is a supply/demand and quality issues – and many of these students have taken out a lot of student loans. Even at a top rated public/private law school, being in a top tier of the class.
We had a lawyer that was part of a two person law firm. He decided to join a bigger firm. He definitely was under pressure with billable hours and it was in 15 minute increments, phone and in-person. But he did use the info network on a specific issue and saved us money.
@gpo613 I agree how one can spend less money in retirement - they can perhaps live in an area where they have QOL but was not a place where they could have had their career job. H and I would occasionally go out to eat for lunch with coworkers or for various events – many eat out for lunch and often dinner a lot. We tend to just eat out now in evenings/weekends for special occasions or when ‘the kids’ are visiting - we have some restaurants that they don’t have where they live that are nice to eat at on occasion. Once in a while we even will go to lunch for a special occasion.
I thought we would spend down more when DH stopped working, but we haven’t. I cut back on my hours recently as I am weeks away from retirement. I am turning on SS Oct 1 as I turn 65 then, but we will spend down a little more before we turn on DH’s SS. I don’t like the ‘penalty’ of 5/9 of 1% for each month before our full retirement age of 66 and 4 months. DH has a lot of family longevity even though I ‘plan’ to outlive DH…
DH always loved to cut the yard, in and out of retirement. But when he was away for work travel, I hired a reasonable family owned business to cut the grass and do some other landscaping. Now in retirement, DH even wants to cut the hedge - he use to hate that job but now it is something he wants to do (it is prickly type of hedge as we have a brick wall and drop off so keeping anyone from going through the hedge).
@momofboiler1 DH likes to charge everything, so it is easy to track his spending. He is a ‘minimalist’ in many ways. I am the financial guru of our household. DD1/SIL have a monthly budget/weekly review – they need to build up savings for eventual home ownership (they are having their 3rd child in 4 years of marriage, so lots of other expenses and also may not be in their career city at this point). DD2 is single and is learning to control her on-line shopping; she has a good salary and now with a job move may be ready to look in a year or so for home ownership.
Some spend a lot of vacations and budget accordingly - in and out of retirement.
Our financial guy has assured us that with the nest egg that we have, unless we go ‘crazy’ in spending, we are fine in the long haul.
I have a fair amount of jewelry. I was going to buy a piece for retirement, and still may do, but neither DD are super keen on jewelry (one is more interested than the other); have just one grand-daughter right now. I do have a few special nieces so am thinking about a special piece to go to each of them.
With more control over one’s time in retirement (and perhaps lower stress level) can also do some personal improvement like lose weight and get healthier with more exercise.