How much Financial Aid would I get where I'm from a family that makes a little over $100k?

The following may give you the answer that you seek for each school:

https://npc.collegeboard.org/student/app/rit
http://www.clarkson.edu/admissions/undergrad_admissions/calculator.php
http://www.colgate.edu/admission-financial-aid/financial-aid/net-price-calculator
https://npc.collegeboard.org/student/app/syr