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I do believe my dad when he says he has the money saved, but the problem is that I don't know the state of retirement funds, medical fees, etc.
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Lucky, it's not really your job to know what your parents' finances are. You WILL do well wherever you go, but you should also give your parents credit for making intelligent choices about their finances. If they say they can afford this, you should respect their opinion. Finally, think there's something to be said for setting an example regarding reaching for one's dreams. You got to this point through hard work, and I think that could be inspirational for your siblings and other kids in your community. Good luck, whatever you decide to do.</p>