<p>So, normally I don't care if my friends have sex. I'm generally supportive and respect their choices. I feel they are responsible and can handle it and will weigh out the consequences. But I'm in a mild predicament. I'm not sure how to respond to this txt.</p>
<p>I began txting a friend I haven't talked to very often lately. She mentioned she was exhausted, but had a blast with her boyfriend. I didn't think much of it until she began associating exhaustion with being with her boyfriend and my mind started drawing conclusions. I asked her if it was kissing or more than kissing. This boy would have been the second guy she has kissed, and the first one was a small peck. I got the response of "we were kissing sort of" when I asked what "sort of" meant, I was responded with "we were kissing in his bed...in an empty house". Now call me crazy, but I'm assuming she's meaning that she just had sex for the first time. That or this is a rude joke. </p>
<p>This irritates me because of her causality of admitting this. it seems more like a pride thing instead of respect. But more than anything this is the girl that would proclaim no premarital sex and now she's hinting to the fact she's had it. </p>
<p>How do I possibly respond to the text "we were kissing in his bed...in an empty house..." without being rude and judgmental but without saying "great job" because knowing her, she'll regret it soon? What do you say to this?</p>
<p>I think you should have ignored the connection. And you should just do that now.</p>
<p>Pretend you never received the message or something.</p>
<p>I made some comment about being safe and no regrets… “We didn’t have sex. We’re both still virgins”. Uhg… I hate people so much.</p>
<p>Maybe she’s too embarrassed to tell you … lol</p>
<p>Then why would she hint at it for the last three hours? Wow… What a strange few hours of my life.</p>
<p>Maybe it’s one of those things where she doesn’t want to tell you but wants you to know, subconsciously at least.</p>
<p>Hmmm… I guess I’ll find out eventually. Whatever I suppose.</p>
<p>Disclaimer: I am by no means an expert on the whims of high school girls.</p>
<p>I wish I were. Being a teenage girl really doesn’t help much.</p>
<p>I dont know. I never really had a girlfriend yet. I dont like the drama.</p>
<p>there are plenty of exhausting things that can be done involving kissing in an empty house that do not involve intercourse. You are probably reading more into it than she intends. She might have been just hinting at one of the many steps in between kissing and sex.</p>
<p>I had somewhere between a boyfriend and best friend for awhile. I am never doing that in high school again. Too much drama. I can’t handle it. Being a 17 year old girl doesn’t help the emotional level either. Being told “I love you” means a lot… Never thought the words “I love you more like my sister” would hurt so much when I still felt the “I love you more than any thing” emotion. Hormones suck some serious butt.</p>
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<p>Yes, I think so too.</p>
<p>Maybe she feels somewhat guilty about what she did and wants your support to ease her conscience.</p>