<p>I have a special friend of mine who's been my friend for more than 6 years. He's pretty much my twin (he's 5 hours older than me, but he's a junior cuz of late education) and, as much as you guys may think of incest or whatever, I think he's a great friend and I love him very much like a brother.</p>
<p>Except...I have a problem:
He hates dances.
And thinks sweet things are just a waste of time.
And is super against relationships.
And said he would never ever go to prom ever (though I asked him very quickly one lunch last year for junior prom and he agreed after a week of debate).
And now he said he will never go to senior ball lol.</p>
<p>I want to do something more special this year than just embarrassingly ask him while he's eating at his corner. Anybody have any ideas as to what I can do to ask him to senior ball?</p>
<p>I went to Homecoming this year with a (male) friend of mine who totally didn't want to go. I started early and just begged him. If a guy is your friend (and you guys sound really close) he might care enough to go just for your sake. Just let him now that you really want to go with him.</p>
<p>Not to be too blunt, but if he really doesn't want to go to the dance, why not just ask someone else? I know he's your really good friend and all, but if he keeps explicitly saying that he doesn't want to go, why force him? Is there anyone else you have your sights on as a potential date?</p>
<p>I don't see why a close friend (especially a friend whose been that close with you for that many years) would blow you off like that. I think that if you bother him enough about it, he'll eventually give in.</p>
<p>Just don't push it too hard. Then you're just taking advantage of him. I don't like dances either and if one of my girl friends asked me incessantly, I'd just be annoyed. </p>
<p>Also try offering to pay for him. That would probably be the only thing that'd get me to go. Not even sex. Lol. Make sure you kinda say it as a joke so it doesn't get awkward.</p>
<p>be a little bit aggressive with him and see how he reacts. if you basically throw yourself out there but do it without really declaring anything and he bites, its all good. if he backs off a little or tries to remain a bit distant, immediately become much more attractive or give up the chase.</p>
<p>He's one of those nice guys who doesn't really look forward to relationships (cuz of all the drama).</p>
<p>But I know him well enough to know it's just a front (about him refusing to do anything. I heard from his mom he was rather excited to go to prom last year). I just want to do something sweet to ask him to prom. No sexual favors though. He'd outright reject that lol.</p>