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<p>It might make one more attractive but on a false pretenses basis.
What happens later on when the truth comes out when the family applies for fin aid?
You may have one very angry coach on your hands.
Not the way IMHO to start a college athletic career.</p>

<p>I know my family is still pretty early in this process but I’ve advised my daughter to be open and honest in her dealings with coaches and schools and let the chips fall where they may.</p>

<p>PS: Our EFC is $60,000 and so we’re not going to be eligible for any need-based aid anyway.</p>