<p>I'm raised a single child, so I really don't know how to make friends easily. There come backstabbers. I have those girls different years in different countries ( I'm a recent immigrant). For some stupid reasons they just hate me. Well, maybe there're some untactful things I meant to do/ say at a joke but my voice's not really funny and my face's hard to smile ( IDK why). It's OK if they hate me alone. But these girls try to whisper in the ears of the people who sit around me or their friends. They usually do that with my attention ( They know I am looking) and stare at me like wanting to fight. I never talk to them, just ignore. But the more I ignore the more they try to get my feather. I'm ****ed, but I don't know how to deal with those. Who has experienced a similar situation? Please help me</p>
<p>Well I just posted it this at the backstabbing topic. But it's not really backstabbing. Im not friends with this girl. She just hates me How to deal w/ her?</p>
<p>what do you think about somebody if some b… whisper into your ears that the person’s bad and you dont really know?
If u ignore her would she let you be alone?</p>
<p>I say punch her out.
Lol, no. But I would definately walk right up to her, and tell her to stop talking about you. If she says no, then tell her to get a life. Then walk away. </p>
<p>God, I hate people like that. They only start rumors because they’re bored with their own lives. Or they’re jealous. More often the latter.</p>
<p>Yeah come to think of it. I was with her and her friends a day last year. We were in this class and had to fill out some health paper. I didn’t know what it was so I was trying to ask her friends, who were with her. And they stick together so whenever I tried to ask her friends something ( because I was not in the same school district the year before) and suddenly she cussed me out. I thought she was only joking. But I never expected she’s gonna go rumoring like that,
Isnt the nature of human being is, before meeting someone if you hear bad things about him, chances are that you wont like that person very much, do you?
Come to think of it, Im a recent immigrant and came to all advanced class and got straight As. She’s in advanced classes too. And there are times she cussed me, half jokingly when I took all the extra credit opportunities. I never knew she’s gonna be a little ***** like this.</p>
<p>Well, maybe I think she’s jealous of me, isnt she? ’ Cuz when people are jelous at the first few time they try to be friendly but all waiting for a certain point where you can explode to backstab the person legimately, isn’t it?</p>
<p>So what should I do? Ignore her? Would she let me alone? Damn all the lil *****es</p>
<p>You might wish to try posting this in the parents forum if you want some suggestions from them on how their kids may have handled similar situations. They do care and sometimes have very helpful suggestions as they have seen a lot as parents and sometimes through their varied jobs.</p>