how to deal with sticky situation?

<p>Slightly different take:</p>

<p>While I agree that it is completely unprofessional to not inform a client of a fee structure ahead of time, I disagree that HighHeels does not need a college counselor.</p>

<p>While a letter attesting to her sickness will explain everything, certain colleges are much more likely than others to actually care about this information. I had a similar issue during my undergrad (some really bad illnesses) and my grades suffered. While I had an addendum which explained those issues, it was astonishing how little some schools cared and how much allowances other schools gave me. Until you've actually gone through a similar process, it's impossible to know which schools will be the ones to make allowances. It's also difficult to know which schools will provide support and resources once you are on campus. I had many professors who were very understanding; I had a few who were downright horrible, including one who marked me down for "skipping" class when I had surgery. </p>

<p>If you can find someone who specializes in this, go with her. Otherwise, as much as CC is fantastic, try to find some online forums devoted to the issue of kids with chronic ailments (because it's chronic until you get better) and college admissions for them.</p>