<p>highheels - I strongly second the nomination calmom has made. I was going to PM you with the same name. Although she may be long distance, working with her via email/phone will be a valuable experience. I also believe that the counselors here at CC are excellent and you may want to interview soozievt as well as the one calmom and I are mentioning, to see whose style and fee structure works for you. IF you need a counselor.</p>