How to discreetly mention another school's offer during appeal process?

<p>I think it would be a mistake not mention a discrepancy in awards if it is what is making the decision for one school over another. There are many schools that are “rivals” for the same student pool. If a student has a preference for college A over B, but A’s package is a $10K difference and when all is put on the table, that’s what makes B the better choice, I think the student is doing a favor to A to let them know. </p>

<p>My son has two schools in that situation. $10k over 4 years would be the deal breaker. A third school that was not in the picture has usurped the first place spot with a $50K+ (over 4 years) merit award. I doubt either of the two schools will even come close to matching that even though i think the schools are all similar in rankings and type. If the difference were closer, and son truly preferred one of the schools, we would certainly call and let them know. </p>

<p>I guess this is a good question to ask those who are in financial aid and admissions. If a student clearly wants to go to your school over a similar school, would you want him/her to let you know that the obstacle is the difference in cost due to an award?</p>