<p>^^^As a young person, you should be able to find a decent share for $800-1000 per person, but there are usually utilities on top of that. This could mean no elevator, definitely no doorman, no laundry. Be prepared to lower your expectations. There are many areas that are pretty safe. Best advice is to keep an open mind and check out the neighborhood at night. You also want to keep in mind subway/bus access. In the boroughs, there are areas that are faaar away from the train. That will make your life considerably more complicated. If you want to be in Manhattan, there are many great apartments in neighborhoods north of 96th st, and especially north of 110th st.
Good luck.</p>
<p>As for job hunting, networking is really crucial in NYC. Both my S & D found jobs through my emailing efforts, I’m happy to say! (I know a lot of people—I provided the initial contact but they got the jobs on their own.) So, don’t be too proud to ask everyone for help, including your Mom!</p>