<p>I think the OP has been beat up enough over the keylogger suggestion. </p>
<p>To the OP - you are obviously feeling great distress and concern for your son. This can be a tough one if your son is not communicating with you. And it’s easy for those of us on the outside to suggest you “just talk to him”. This is difficult if the relationship is strained for whatever reason. I can only suggest that when you talk to him, you reassure him that you want what is best for him, you are concerned since he isn’t communicating a lot with you, you want to support him as best as possible, etc.</p>