<p>I’ve heard that “The Game” is a good book for these types of situations.</p>
<p>Sup Oscar.</p>
<p>Just smile. :)</p>
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<p>dammit i just lost the game</p>
<p>Yeah… confidence with females is not something I necessarily have.</p>
<p>^You don’t need to have a whole lot, you just have to make it seem like you do. Besides, confidence isn’t necessarily an overt trait: it can be in how you carry yourself, how you talk, etc.</p>
<p>Eventually, you’ll become more confident as you get more practice.</p>
<p>Haha bro, is this a serious topic?</p>
<p>I’m not sure how to explain it, just act like you are the man. Think to yourself that she should be lucky that you’re even talking to her. And finish each cocky remark with a sly grin, so you’re giving a funny and confident vibe, rather than the blunt ******* vibe.</p>
<p>Also, please stop putting ■■■■■ on a pedestal.</p>
<p>^no such thing as a serious topic in HSL</p>
<p>bb.com is the place to go for any advice because you should always trust body builders (rippetoe works though)</p>
<p>and this forum could certainly use more bbers</p>
<p>That’s the truth.</p>
<p>Do we actually have any bbers here?</p>
<p>**** I forgot to lift today…</p>
<p>I browse the forums but rarely post anything</p>
<p>@BryDeeC
As a girl, if a guy were to say that to me, I’d be laughing so hard I’d have to say yes.</p>
<p>w*f, that bb forum post didn’t hold back</p>
<p>that was as long as a book. an actual book.</p>
<p>Another thing, go pick up The Blueprint Decoded from RSD. Watch the videos and you’re mind will be blown. Never worry about picking up girls ever again.</p>
<p>I’ve never actually been to bb.com but I do lift regularly (4-5 times a week).
Yeah, being Indian totally helps with picking up chicks at my ridiculously prude school… I just can’t wait to go to college and talk to chicks who might actually give a damn.</p>
<p>How did this end up as a bb thread?</p>
<p>I need to lift more. School’s killing me. I only lift 2 times a week.</p>
<p>As a girl I would totally hate cocky, overconfident boys… and to try to make me feel that I’m lucky to be talking to you, would be even worse. I just hate guys like that.</p>
<p>You don’t need to know how to flirt. Just be yourself, if you’re shy then be shy . . . (personally I think that’s cute) if you’re funny be funny . . . just don’t hold back. Don’t try to be someone that you’re not but more importantly don’t try to be “cool” . . . or well at least thats what I think . . . but who knows? Other girls might be into overconfident, cocky boys…</p>