How to get over the feeling that you won't get into any college?

@wormholes I think what your counselor said is broadly true across schools, but there are different (mostly unknowable) weightings between the two for different schools. It sure looks like to me that for UCs it is much less about scores than GPA.

UCs are great - I just want you to carefully build your college list from the safeties up, not from the reaches down.