<p>Try just asking. I hate it when people dick around and expect other people to read their minds.</p>
<p>would it be wrong, if a asked a chick who already has a boyfriend? what if i can fight him and win? does that matter? hehehe</p>
<p>otherwise, my choices are severly limited to girls i don't socialize with much</p>
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would it be wrong, if a asked a chick who already has a boyfriend?
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Yes
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what if i can fight him and win? does that matter? hehehe
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Only if afterward she dumps him.</p>
<p>I would say that might not be the greatest idea. Unless it looks like things might be on the rocks/turning sour with her bf, she might be grateful to have an excuse to break up with him. Check out how things are going. Ask her, "so, how are things with <em>whatshisname</em>?" If she says, "oh its fine," and then changes the subject, things proabably aren't fine. But whatever she says, ask her if they're planning on going to prom. See how she reacts, and make a decision from there.</p>
<p>don't fight him. I know I wouldn't be impressed with that. But then again, I'm only one person and I can only tell you what I think.</p>
<p>i wouldnt fight anyone. plus, i knew the kid from way back. *sigh</p>
<p>two words: personal.escort.</p>
<p>I always liked the idea of making it a huge deal, putting a banner in front of the school, or something like that that you see on tv. it's kinda a given for my boyfriend and i that we go together, so there is no asking involved.</p>
<p>escorts are an option. you'll definately be the life of the party, and you WILL have the 'party' of your life afterwards. but issues of money and parental consent push this option to the back of my brain</p>
<p>bump it up</p>
<p>hi~~ okay, now i'm the one who needs advice too lol... what should I do??? i don't want to go to prom alone... gawd...</p>
<p>ashley - just ask someone. I'm sure the guys at your school would be thrilled to go with you. :)</p>
<p>ok, i have a question. how early is too early to ask someone (planning on just asking a friend)? my prom is april 16th. is one month in advance too early?</p>
<p>nah, one month is just about right, assuming that it is 1-2 weeks before ticket sales</p>
<p>if a girl already has a girlfriend, it doesnt matter. this is the earth, we follow the rules of social creatures. i would put on a masculine display and scare the alpha male away and then release pheromones so the girl would come closer and then wed run off to the prom, leaving the other male feeling bad and with his tail between his legs.</p>
<p>one month?!!!!! you're gonna give the girl one month to find a suitable prom dress and accesories! come onnnn guys! february is the perfect prom asking month: ask away now before it's too late......</p>
<p>lol, i'm a girl and i got my dress the day before and yes, it was a hassle for my date. This is coming from a Grade A Procrastinator. Anywaaaaays, i said one month b/c most girls (at least the ones in my school) will attend prom regardless of whether they have a date or not. </p>
<p>In addition to adidasty's post, if the girl has a girlfriend then u might as well ask the girlfriend too so everybody can be together and happy.</p>
<p>Do you mean ask the girl's friend to prom too? like take both of 'em.</p>
<p>Yeah, I dunno what to do.... My past girlfriends have asked me out, so I have never actually asked anyone out. I dunno, I have this really close friend but I don't know if I should ask her to prom cuz that would be kinda weird. Other than that, there are a few girls I would wanna go with but never really talk to them alot, although I share classes with them and they know I exist. I don't really know what to do and I fear I will end up not having a date :(</p>
<p>xinerz: what? ask in febuary, now i'm really panicing</p>
<p>about the dress, can't i assume that the girl will be going to the prom, so she would have a dress picked out even before anyone asks her? guys usually dress in black and white tuxs, so it is correct to assume that matching outfits will be dependent on the girl's dress?</p>
<p>how ostricized will i be if i end up going with a girl in a younger grade? is this something that must be avoided at all costs, even if it means going alone?</p>
<p>just go, SUP PROM WIFF ME?</p>
<p>prom is 3 months away for me and I was asked (im a guy)...I guess early is good!!!!</p>