<p>Early is definitely good! </p>
<p>Jimmy~ a month is definitely not too early. I would love it if a guy would ask me now! Seriously, I'm like, worring about whether or not I'm going to have a prom date!!!! And my prom is April 2!! Go for it, I'm sure it'll be great. Now, I should be taking my own advice, this is true, but ehhhh. I'm too worried about oh i don't know - all that stupid stuff we adolescents worry about!</p>
<p>dang proms already? our sadies is coming up. a girl asked me and i said, "no im doing math that day." lol</p>
<p>man...our prom (called Commencment) isn't until May!!!!</p>
<p>Its tradition here to not to ask a girl to a dance by walking up to her and saying like: "Hey, wanna go to the dance w/me?"</p>
<p>Here, we decorate their rooms/cars/ secretly do stuff and they have to find out who is asking them.....its fun! Then they do the same thing to answer....When a girl asked me to a Sadie a while back, I answered her back by making her go on a Scavenger Hunt......</p>
<p>But it doesnt matter if you know the person very well or not.....You can indirectly or directly ask them......if you are too scared to directly ask them, write a letter, decorate their cars, pull a Napolean Dynamite......etc....</p>
<p>Don't be afraid, and be confident, otherwise the girl will prolly be like: " Wow, this guy is scared to ask me out....what a pansy..."</p>
<p>how about asking a girl you've never talked to and you only share one class with? how do you do that?</p>
<p>you donttt</p>
<p>capital D?</p>
<p>Just get to know that girl a little more...be aggressive. You don't want to ask a girl that might not be compatible with you. That's why you need to do stuff with her. It's something you will remember for the rest of your life. Just be a b<em>a</em>d<em>a</em>s_s and go for it.</p>
<p>A close friend of mine, who I've known since freshman year asked me out to the Junior prom. But it wasn't anything formal or anything but more like, "You know you're coming with me to the prom?"
I was like, "I am? I don't think so."
Then he kept on bugging me to go and I was like, "NO!" (Not really forcefully, but sort of jokingly/exasperatedly)
He and I have a kind of strange relationship; we show our affection by insulting each other...not mean insults, but teasing ones. He's hopeless with English essays and I often edit them and give him tips to re-write his thesis, while he is a Math god and helps me out with math that he thinks he can do sleeping.
I'm not allowed to date and I don't know how to explain this to him. I've tried, but I don't think he fully understands. :P He's been rather sweet, he came with one of my friends to visit me when I was sick and brought me flowers and then last month, asked me to come along with him and his friend to watch "The Hitchhiker's..."
I'm in a dilemma. Poor guy. I hope he isn't serious about me. :P</p>
<p>update:</p>
<p>the girl's boyfriend can not go to prom. when should i ask her? now would seem like i'm pushing she relationship. but later, she may be unprepared because she may have decided not to go.</p>
<p>also does it always have to be the guy who asks (just out of curiosity)?</p>